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Sunday, 11 January 2009

  • Meow

    A few days ago, I had a dream.  A dream that I never would have dreamed of having again.  It was a happy dream, but rather a melancholic aftertaste. 

    After seven years, I never thought I'd "see" you again.  Feeling so warm to "see" your smile, to have you with me again.  The entire dream could be explained, I could find the movies, passages, and so on that stimulated the neurons to project such images into my brain so to have such restless "flashback".  But no, I chose to take on a personal side, to be with myself, my heart. 

    I still remember the words you've said back then.  The things you liked, or not liked. The place that you've always liked to go.  Whenever I see them, I can't control myself from having these thoughts again.  Truth, I shouldn't be anymore after so many years.  Still, I'd let myself loose, maybe once again.

    I never thought I was good enough.  You were right.  It was a bitter taste.  As days went by, I never stopped to ponder if my decision was wise, rational, or even mature.  Perhaps too wise, too rational, and too mature for kids like us back then.  Or more like, not irrational enough for me.  I didn't try hard enough when I thought I did what I could under the circumstances, or made the best choice given what I perceived to follow.  Even if all that might've been true, I still have remorse, my mind never did stop to surprise myself with new pictures.  I admit, time does wash the memories away and I am getting old and tired, starting to forget pieces by pieces of my important memories even so unwilling.

    The decision made, I was optimistic.  Until one day shortly after,  I started to feel incomplete no matter how I lived my days, the taste of regrets swirled inside of me.  I tried, not sure if you realized that I did, but I tried to maintain everything, to keep things going, hoping that patience would pay off one day.  Maybe I really wasn't trying hard enough.  I was too naive, overly optimistic.

    Even after a while, I kept on trying.  Hoping for a glimpse of luck that things could have another turn around the corner.  The circumstances at that time didn't really gave me much of a boost but that didn't stop me from leaving you a message.  But Your response was very clear.  I chose to be stubborn, or the synonym is "determined".  Blindsided.  Years passed by.  Your words were still never shy to me, always so true, so sharp, so vivid.  I accepted.

    "I'm sorry."  That is what I really want you to know.  I was never fooling around with you, even though you probably think I did because what I said was probably an excuse in your mind.  I really loved you.  Every word, promises that I made as much as I could remember, I meant them.  Too late. 

    Why am I writing this now, I asked myself the same question.  I am not looking to amend, or to hope that start-over is ever an option.  Perhaps I just wish somehow you'd have walked by and read it.  Perhaps I want you to know. 

    New Year's eve marked the end of realistic wisdom, one filled with unpleasant and cruel events.  One that I am not fascinated to experience again.  Nonetheless, it taught me what I much needed.

    Many years, hasn't it?  Things've changed.  You too, without a question.  So did I.  
    Life has an interesting way to slap you in the face.  If, and only if....but who is to know anyway. 

    I wish, and never stop wishing, that you are happy, and will continue to be happy. ^_^
    All the best to You.

    O_O

Thursday, 20 November 2008

Thursday, 16 October 2008

  • " 看破、放下、自在 ... "

    這個領域,我都離開咗很長嘅一段時間,以往喜歡寫心中嘅樂與悲、愁與喜,卻往往"朋友"會評論內容太愁令他不安,濤濤不絕嘅"良言評話"令我只想離開得一番清靜,這處我唯一幾個表達渠道都要被封,你話可笑不?這個地方本充滿我一剎嘅情感,但回望一番只見它被無中生有之事污染。

    "放手,放開所有".....聽到這句歌詞,令我明白我將要必要踏上嘅一條新路,我想重新執筆。

    今年,真係發生咗太多事,或者應該話發生咗幾件冲擊大嘅事。事情內容我不會想再提,更不想做個講古佬,但係佢地令我過咗非常唔開心嘅一年。

    這幾年回想起真係失去咗好多﹔成日自問點解、點解好似這八年好似重唔愉快呢? 失去咗重要嘅人,失去咗我想同舊好朋友分享嘅光陰時刻,漸漸迷失本身嘅我,開始失去原有嘅自控,亦失去咗部分應有嘅健康‧‧‧原因?有一大部份都係想係這個新地方做一個"好朋友"嘅本份。現在真係想問我當年嘅決定是否錯?可惜... 時間...

    這幾年,一路認為自已已經趁勢而行,盡善人意,到頭來卻換來"假與偽之物"。接受"朋友"嘅種種好與壞,卻得來"朋友"嘅無理批評、亦有假善利用。令我想問"朋友"對你幾位來講係乜?

    成日話"朋友"前"友誼"後,"重視"前"珍惜"後,可惜你哋言行根本不一至!不好往往將負任賴係我身上!火都來!大條道理話想講清楚,偽笑而言話自己無錯,力正氣壯地指摘,可惜你嘅言說完全唔合情理呢!做人要講道理,做"朋友"更加要合情合理有義氣!

    "我發洩咗啦,舒服啦"我聽過這句話兩次,都係出字"朋友"口中,指摘完之後嘅,兩次聽到我都非常憤怒!你因咩理由憑乜發洩!?若言事情我都有少少負任,我作為朋友會用耐心去接受你嘅指摘,但係事情係百分百出於你嘅,你同我發洩!?你根本就係唔想接受現實承受負任,只認為自己永遠是對的,想其他人生活係你嘅世界控制之內,將負任推係我身上。同你哋做朋友,但覺你哋當我係契弟!用詞係重加啦!好火!

    好心做人唔好太假啦!我真係好傷好失望,唔想再抱任何希望。不想再講。心好累‧‧‧

    絕地無望之濟都永遠有柱光,好想好老土向我幾位真心老友講聲多謝,特別係 wong gor、bin、gabo、choi、ben,雖然你哋末必會見到,但都想真心衷心多謝你哋。

    來流去送,由然自得
    " 看破、放下、自在 ... " -- 馮兩努

Wednesday, 15 October 2008

Wednesday, 07 March 2007

  • When you're in despair, I stand to my promise and be there for you.

    When I'm in despair, how come I feel that you're just trying to get away from a burden..

    i just dont understand..

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